Wednesday, December 21, 2005

10 things About Me



10 Things about Me

I’ve noticed that my blogs are different than many other women’s blogs. When I look at posts from blogs like http://boredhousewife.blogspot.com/ I notice that they are a bit more telling of thoughts, feelings, and personal information that allows the reader to get to know the writer. I don’t generally write those types of soul bearing entries. When you look at my blog, it would seem that I don’t reveal much personal information. But if you REALLY look at my entries, you can learn a lot about who I am:

1. I am interested in technology (from posts like “ Palm Life Drive Review” and I Want This!!!-Sony VAIO VGC-V617G Desktop PC) AKA I’m a geeky chick.

2. I Like to cook (from the recipe posts)

3. I like Marilyn Manson (from “What’s the Diva Google-ing”)

4. I think farts are funny

5. I like to write (from my Writer’s Notebook posts and the fact that I have a blog)

6. I have strong opinions (from my Diva Rants)

7. I like to clean (from “The Truth about Dirt, Germs, and Cleaning)

8. I’m into environmentalism, at least slightly (from “The Truth about Dirt, Germs, and Cleaning, and the Alternative Menstrual Products series )

9. I have red hair (everywhere) (from “Yes, I’m a Red-Headed Diva”)

10. I have a three-year-old (from “What Ever Happened to The Cast of Annie” )

The picture above was taken right after I had my daughter. My hair was short then, and I had to Photo Shop in 1/2 an eyebrow b/c I accidentally shaved 1/2 of it off (don't ask.)

Allergy Resource-www.Pollen.com


Since I suffer from terrible allergies, I love this site:

"If you suffer from allergies, you need accurate, reliable, timely information that allows you to consistently manage your symptoms and take control of your life! Pollen.com is the revolutionary new online resource that provides you with essential tools to do just that.

With reliable up-to-the-minute allergy forecasts that show the upcoming airborne allergen conditions in your local environment, Pollen.com prepares you for the day by offering you all the facts - at a glance! This is information that can help you maximize the quality of your life, and perhaps minimize visits to your physician or allergy specialist.

Pollen.com educates you with a complete glossary of information about pollen and periods of peak activity and coverage, arming you with a powerful weapon in your fight against allergies! "

Pollen.com - Local Pollen reports and forecasts

In The News- Study Says Cell Phones Disrupting family Life

BabyCenter News - Cell Phones Disrupt Family Life
"FRIDAY, Dec. 9 (HealthDay News)- Cell phones and pagers, part of the technological revolution that was supposed to liberate everyone, are tethering people to their jobs to an unprecedented degree, to the point where family life is suffering."
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This article hit close to home for me. I keep two little boys along with my daughter and one of the little boy's moms is always on her cell phone when she comes to the door. Sometimes she'll stand outside on the porch and talk for 5 or 10 minutes while her son stares at her out the window and waits for her to come in and get him. It gives him a message about what's really important to mom :(

On a similar note, I HATE going out with friends who are constantly glued to their phones when we are out. I'm the type who WILL say something. I don't have a problem with an occasional phone call, but some people go overboard with it. Another pet peeve is people at the mall or grocery store who are talking on their cell phones and don't watch where they are going. Ugh. Teenagers at dinner talking on thier cell phones is another biggie. If you can't go to dinner with your family without chatting on the phone, then you have a problem. The parents are really the BIGGEST problem for not stopping this behavior.

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

How do you make laundry soap?

1/3 bar of Fels Naptha or Zote Laundry bar soap grated. Put in small pan, cover with water, heat until melted.

Dissolve 1 cup of Borax and 1 cup of Washing Soda in hot water. Add the melted Fels Naptha, stirring to mix well. (The mixture starts to thicken and gel up almost immediately.)

Divide the soap between 2 gallon laundry jugs saved from l purchased aundry soap; add hot water to fill them to the top; and shake well.

Powdered:

1 box of borax
1 box of Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda
1 bar of soap, grated (you can use Dial, Ivory, Fels Naptha, or Zote)

Combine all ingredients and store in a container.

To use:
2 tbsp per load of laundry (no that's not a typo)

If the laundry is really dirty, I add 1/4 cup of baking soda to the wash.

These soaps only cost about $.04-.08 per load, depending on what you spend on the products to make them.


I let them sit overnight before using, and I always shake really well before using. I use a capful of laundry soap per load. "

Simple Living Book Recommendation

Since I'm a fan of simple and old-fashioned living, I thought I would recommend a good book on simplifying your holidays. You can order the book, or download it in e-book form.

celebratesimply.com:

"Have you ever dreamed of simpler celebrations that leave you exhilarated rather than exhausted? Overjoyed instead of overwhelmed?
If so, stop dreaming. Celebrate Simply: Your Guide to Simpler, More Meaningful Holidays and Special Occasions is for you."

Sunday, December 18, 2005

Kelly Clarkson's Breakaway Is Awesome



I’m kind of embarrassed to say that I bought the new Kelly Clarkson cd-“Breakaway.” But, frankly, it’s pretty dang good.

I’m not much into pop music, and I definitely DON’T watch American Idol. So, when I kept hearing these uber catchy tunes by American Idol Winner Kelly Clarkson, I was very resistant to admitting that I liked them. One right after another, though, the good songs kept on coming. I finally thought that she may actually be talented, and her popularity wasn’t a fluke. I even decided to buy her new album, Breakaway. I had to go to four different stores to find it. And even then, I picked up the very last one at Super Target. I unwrapped it and put it in the CD player as soon as I got into the car. I was instantly hooked.

Every song is good, and sounds like it could be a radio hit (not that the radio is that fabulous.) I especially like the almost-edgy “Since You been Gone” and the passionate and sad “Addicted.” I actually feel emotion when I hear these songs, which is rare for me when listening to pop music. “Because of You” is another favorite of mine. It almost makes my sappy ass cry. Honestly, the only song I’m not crazy about is the title track “Breakaway.” I find it a bit bland, but it’s still is listen-able.

Pretty much everyone who bought the album on Amazon loved it. When I went to Amazon I was very surprised that people who bought Kelly Clarkson also bought albums from groups like Green Day and Maroon 5. I figured she had the same audience as Celine Dion or something. It turns out, her music isn’t dorky at all. This girl has some real talent and makes great music.

EASY "Homemade" Cinnamon Buns


These are fabulous and very easy. People are very impressed by them. They are a Christmas morning tradition for us.



20-25 frozen dough rolls (the kind that you leave out to rise)
1 cup brown sugar
1/2 small pkg vanilla instant pudding powder
1-2 Tbsp Cinnamon
3/4 cup of pecans
1/4 to 1/2 cup melted butter (higher amount= more goo on your rolls)

The night before you need these, grease/spray a 10" Bundt or angel food pan and add frozen rolls. Sprinkle with brown sugar, cinnamon, pudding powder, and nuts. Pour MELTED butter over all. Do not mix them together, just sprinkle and then pour butter over the top. Cover with a clean, damp cloth. LEAVE OUT AT ROOM TEMP OVERNIGHT.

Overnight, the dough with thaw and rise. When you wake up, bake at 350 for 25 minutes. Let sit for 5 minutes and turn over onto plate.

YUMMY!!!!

*** Always put the rolls in first, then sprinkle the stuff, and add the butter

Friday, December 16, 2005

I Want This!!!-Sony VAIO VGC-V617G Desktop PC

DH (Aaron) and I were in Office Depot today, and I saw this incredible computer that gave me the female equivelant of a woody. It's called the Sony VAIO VGC-V617G Desktop PC. It's a cross between a home entertainment center, and a gaming quality PC. It is so beautiful. The hardrive is integrated into the high def screen. The keyboard and mouse are wireless, and the keyboard has a shield that folds over it to "hide" it from view. The speakers are integrated. It has practically no cords, and has terrific specs:

Windows XP Home Edition

3.2 GHz Intel Pentium 4 processor 540 with 800 MHz front-side bus and 1 MB L2 cache

Integrated 17-inch LCD, 200 GB hard drive, 512 MB RAM (1 GB maximum),

Dual-layer DVD+/-RW burner

Four USB 2.0, two Firewire, one VGA, one headphone, one microphone, one PCMCIA, composite video, S-Video, Memory Stick reader

Built-in 10/100 Ethernet; 56K (V.90) modem, 54-Mbps wireless LAN (802.11b/g)

With rebates, you can get it for about $1600

Update on My Palm Life Drive


PDA Heaven-Update on My Palm Life Drive

Now that I’ve had a chance to use the Life Drive for a while, I feel that I can comment on it a bit more, and guess what? I STILL love it!!! The Palm LD is everything I thought it would be and more.

Not only does it work well as a PDA, but I got a chance to surf the net with it. I was sitting in church (can you believe that a woman who got her dildo stolen goes to church?) and decided to see if they had a wireless network. I just tapped on the network icon, and it came right up. I was able to browse with Blazer instantly. I put the screen on landscape view for a wider display. It was pretty fast; although I did have a soft reset both times I used my wireless. These are the only two times that I have had a soft reset.

I also loaded a Bible program and Shark Cache on to it. The Bible is pretty self-explanatory. Sharke Cache is the program that helps programs load faster in LD. You see, LD has a lag. When you hit an icon, it can take up to two seconds to get into your program. That has been a bit annoying. With Shark Cache, you can put 4mb worth of programs into cache. The come up instantly when you tap them. It cost me $10.00. I don’t know if I’ve posted a link to it before, but here is where you can find Shark Cache:

Download Shark Cache


I haven’t loaded much 3rd party software onto it, but I am planning to add Handy Shopper next. Handy Shopper is a really cool list program. You can supposedly do a lot with it. I signed up for a Handy List Yahoo group where they teach you all the cool things you can do with this program. And, you can download pre-made lists. Right now, I use the very cool notepad for any list I make. You make notes in your own handwriting. It is quick and easy, and not as messy as a real notepad.

I got a Bluetooth keyboard too (did I mention this in my initial review?) It’s really cool. It is about the size of a medium sized book. It unfolds and you use it to put text into the Docs to go program on the Life drive. Set-up was pretty simple. It doesn’t always connect on the first try. But, I do always get it connected within a minute or two. I have used it to type up blog entries while I watch my d/c kids. Then, I upload them into word on my computer and publish through Word, or cut and paste through the Blogger web site. As soon as we get broadband around here, I’m going to get a Bluetooth module to connect my PDA wirelessly to the internet at home. I can publish directly from my PDA.

There is also an update that is supposed to fix some of the flaws of the LD. I haven’t run the update yet, but plan on it soon.

Download LD Update

I also haven’t had much of a chance to upload music to it, but will soon, as I plan to hook it up to my car stereo so I can listen to what I want in the car. I did upload a Bent( Bent's Website)
CD onto it and it plays very well. When you try to open another program while playing music, you will sometimes get a quick skip. but, other than that, the music playback has been flawless so far.

Basically, I will admit that the LD is a bit wonky. It has it's workable flaws. They are easy to accept since my home pc is really no different. I get error reports from Internet Explorer all of the time, and my computer occasionally resets for no good reason. So, if you are used to computers, and want cutting edge technology, then the quirks of the LD shouldn't be a big deal. You get used to them, kind of like with your significant other. You may even embrace them one day.

See My Previous Palm Life Drive Review

Thursday, December 15, 2005

Weird Confession Time- Someone Stole My Dildo!

I’m not much of a sex toy person. Probably finding dildos in my parents room as a child freaked me out so much that I was traumatized for life or something. Or, maybe my husband is so good in bed, that I just don’t need them. Who knows. Anyway, the one time I got the nerve to actually buy one, it ended up getting stolen. It was a blue, nubby, jelly dildo. It was rather small, but it did the job. Anyway, shortly after we got it, we bought our first house. We packed everything up and about ten different people helped us move. I realized when I unpacked my side table box, that someone had untaped the box and stolen my dildo. Who the hell would want a used dildo? Is one of my husband’s friends holed up somewhere smelling it? Or did my husband hide it out of jealousy? What if it was my mother-in-law, or my mother? Ewwww.

Okay, I'll give you one more weird dildo story. My mom's step nephew was nosing around my parent's house in August and found my mom's stash of playthings. Let me tell you, that I KNOW what their stuff looks like b/c I have nosed around many times myself. They have HUGE rubber dongs with veins and everything. They are very explicit sex toys and I'm sure quite shocking for a seven year-old to find. My step nephew went and whispered something to my step grandma and her mouth hit the floor. She is very prim. We're not sure that she's ever seen a rubber phallus in person before. She told my grandpa. He started laughing. He's a perv from way back when, so nothing shocks him.

Goofy E-mail

Okay, I'm going to share one of "those" e-mails. It's goofy, but kinda cute.

Today is International Very Good Looking, Damn Smart Woman's Day, so please send this message to someone you think fits this description. Please do not send it back to me as I have already received it from a Very Good Looking, Damn Smart Woman!

And remember this motto to live by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!" Have a wonderful day !

Girl Talk- Sea Sponge Tampons (More Alternative Menstrual Products)


Girl Talk- More Alternative Menstrual Products

Sea Sponge Tampons

Didn’t know there were SO many alternative menstrual products huh? Today’s alternative product is the sea sponge. It’s an alternative to tampons. Basically, they are small, natural sea sponges (sea sponges grow on the bottom of the sea floor) that you insert into the vagina with your fingers. They act to absorb the flow just as a tampon would. The main differences are that it has no applicator, they are free of chemicals, and you reuse them (for 6-8 cycles.)

Since natural sea sponges are rough and scratchy when dry, you moisten them before inserting (unless you like scratchy rough things in your hoo-hoo.) You can cut them down to a size that is comfortable for you. After a maximum of three hours, you can take it out with your fingers, or sew a piece of dental floss to it to make it easier to remove. You can supposedly just wash it out and reuse it, but I did find a source that said that they should be boiled for 5-10 minutes between uses because harmful bacteria can stay inside of them. I, personally, would clean them well, then saturate them with water, microwave it for 5 minutes, then let it sit until cool. You can put a piece of Glad Press and Seal on the floor of the microwave if you are squeamish about putting the sea sponge in direct contact with the microwave. There are other ways to sanitize the sponge. I won’t list them all here. Anyway, I have never actually used these things. I haven't heard as much buzz about them as I have the Diva and Instead cups either. I just wanted to put them out there as an alternative.

Sources for Sea Sponge Tampons:

Luna Pads Sea Sponge Tampons

Goddess Within Sea Sponges

Links to My Other Alternative Menstrual Articles:


The Diva Cup and The Keeper Mestrual Cups

Instead Disposable Soft Cups

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Writer's Notebook- "Jimmy"


I'm pulling an oldie out of my Writer's Notebook today. This piece is about my father-in-law.

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"Jimmy"

Now, he is defined by his eccentricities. His pockets are filled with tiny crystals, each with it's own purpose and function, "I don't want to leave my body while I'm driving."

Then, there's the chicken shit bald cure, "I can attest with 100% confidence that rubbing chicken shit on a bald head cure will cure baldness."

He has one get-rich-quick scheme after another, "My stock plan calls for me to make a minimum of two million dollars when the orgasmatron(AKA Slightest Touch) goes public."

He extends the most interesting invitations, "Live-in-lover is holding a seance with some ladies on Friday. You really should come. A friend of ours channels the universe. She'll being doing it on Saturday. Would you like to come hear the wisdom of the universe on Saturday at seven?"

Then, there is the father he once was. He was a young man when he married her, maybe nineteen. He gladly took a bride with a child who was a product of way-less-than-love. As far as he was concerned, that little girl was HIS. He even gave her his last name.

They were happy, really happy. She was a small town girl from a big family. He was the same. He loved to fish, play the banjo in a bluegrass band, drink beer and be a dad. She loved to cook and keep a lovely home. The couple had two more children together, a boy and a girl. They went on family trips and remodeled their house. They had good times, the best times, mostly happy memories. Both talk of their happiness. So, what happened?

At this point the story becomes foggy because his explanation changes with the tides. First, he says, "We grew apart." Next, he says, " She was holding me back from becoming the person I wanted to be." Then, he says, " A new spirit entered my body sending the old one away." That's the explanation that sounds right. A new "spirit" entered his body and she lived in Arlington, Texas. Why else would a man leave his wonderful wife and three children to move to Arlington, Texas of all places? There was nothing for him there except for maybe the new lady friend "spirit" of his.

IN the grand scheme of things, why he left isn't important. What does matter is that he left. He left three children with no father and no clue. His only son was six, maybe seven years old at the time. That kid adored his dad. He didn't care why his father left. All he really knew is that his beloved father walked out the door forever. He left the boy to deal with a long string of white trash boyfriends who came into his house and tried to play dad- mean dad, cruel dad, not his dad. Finally, when the boy turned twelve, mom settled on one-- a twenty-one-year-old boy closer in age to his new step-son than his new wife. There isn't much to say about that marriage except that after all of these years, it is still hanging by a frayed, brittle, miserable thread.

Sometimes, he still fells like that seven-year-old-boy, filled with all of those raw feelings of daddy leaving. He will never understand why men abandon their families, or why society allows it to happen. But, he knows for sure that no matter what, it will never happen to him.

Girl Talk- The Diva Cup (More Alternative Menstrual Products)


Sorry guys, more girl stuff today. Here’s a link to keep you entertained:

For the guys who don’t want smut:

http://wackyuses.com/

For those who don’t mind a little (non-nudity) smut:

http://ctoe.bolt.com/


More Feminine Hy-jinx- Alternative Menstrual Products

The Diva Cup and The Keeper

I have not personally tried either of these products, but have heard about them. Ladies all over the net sing their praises. Both of them are menstrual cups designed to replace tampons. The Diva Cup is pictured above.

What is a menstrual cup you ask? A menstrual cup is designed to be inserted into the vagina during a woman’s menstrual cycle to catch the flow. They generally hold about an ounce of fluid. The average woman has a flow of about 3-4 ounces over the course of her entire period. Menstrual cups are reusable. When you wish to empty it, you pull it out gently (while on the toilet), empty the contents, and wash with hot soapy water. Since you can wear them all day, you don’t have to mess with cleaning it at work or while out and about. If you feel it needs to be cleaned while you are out, you can follow the procedure for removal and wipe it out well with toilet paper, then just wash it out when you get home. Most women who wear them say that you can wear them for quite a while with no leaks or odors.

These two products are different from the Instead Soft Cup in that they are worn lower in the vaginal canal. They are to be worn more like a tampon, rather than over the cervix ( the Instead fits over the cervix.) This supposedly works better for women with tipped uteruses. They are smaller than the Instead and are reusable. These are popular with “greenie’s.”

While The Keeper and Diva cup look a lot alike, The Keeper is rubber and The Diva Cup is Silicon. Here are the websites. I find that The Diva Cup site is more user friendly, and it has GREAT Q&A’s for those of you who want to learn more.

http://www.divacup.com/

http://www.keeper.com/

I would love to be able to provide a bevy of reviews, but Epinions doesn’t have them on this product. The websites have testimonials, but those aren’t unbiased. Here are a few reviews:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B0009QW8CS/002-6331674-9406421?v=glance

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B0009JUPNO/002-6331674-9406421?v=glance

Links to My Other Articles on Alternative Menstrual ProductsSea Sponge Articles

Instead Disposable Menstrual Cups

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Girl Talk- My Favorite Girly Websites

I wanted to share a couple of my favorite Diva websites for the ladies. The first is "All About My Vagina" and tells you ANYTHING you could ever want to know about the female nether regions. This is NOT a smut site, but if you are offended by vaginas, then skip it. The second is Pee On a Stick.com and is a pregnancy test site. It is for obsessors only. It gives great info on how they work and has tons of pg test photos. I discovered it when I was trying to get pregnant.


http://myvag.net/sitemap/#aboutmap

http://www.peeonastick.com/

Yes, I'm a Redheaded Diva Part II


Research by Clairol shows that 30 percent of women ages 18 to 34 who color their hair are choosing either auburn or strawberry blonde.

Percentages of redheads in different countries range from single digits to a fraction of 1 per cent -- a recent estimate for France is 0.03 per cent of people. (A 1977 estimate for North America is 4 per cent.)

Redheads generally are more numerous in northern latitudes, but also turn up among Hungarians, Egyptians, Israelis and certain Nigerian tribes.

Redheads have the thickest hair, but have the smallest number of strands.

Redheads don't turn grey. Red hair turned sandy, then white. I can verify this b/c my aunt, g-ma, and great g-ma experienced this.

Most sources I found say that read heads account for , at most, 5% of the population.

Red heads need 20% more anesthesia on average than other patients http://www.drkoop.com/newsdetail/93/509658.html

According to the Dr. Koop article, they have a LOWER tolerance for pain.

Research has shown that redheads tend to have skin that is more sensitive to the sun and may have as much as five times the risk of melanoma, a skin cancer. http://www.derm.med.ed.ac.uk/06_teaching/redhairgen.htm

Link to Part I of Yes, I'm a Redheaded Diva

Girl Talk- Instead Soft Cups (Alternative Menstrual Products)


Alternative Menstrual Product Review-Instead Soft Cups

Yes, That’s right, I’m talking about feminine menstrual protection. So guys, get out while you can.

Many women have no clue that there are several alternatives to mainstream menstrual products (tampons and pads.) I was sort of grossed out (as most people are) when I first learned about alternative products. But, after learning about what they could do for the environment and/or my body I was convinced to at least try a few.

Instead Soft Cups- The first product I tried is called “Instead.” This isn’t a more environmentally friendly product, just an alternative to tampons. These are disposable, small, soft plastic cups that fit over the cervix, much like a diaphragm. They catch the fluid. You remove them, wrap them in TP and dispose of them in the garbage. The Instead Soft Cups catch phrase is “The freedom of your period without the hassle of strings or wings!”

http://www.softcup.com/

Here are the advantages of the soft cup:


It holds at least twice as much menstrual fluid as a tampon. You can wear them for up to 12 hours.

Absolutely no reported incidence of Toxic Shock Syndrome in over 10 years!

Made entirely of hypoallergenic, non-toxic, non-irritating, non-absorbent materials that have been used for more than 20 years in the health care profession. Cleared by the FDA, it has undergone extensive laboratory and human clinical testing. And, the INSTEAD® Softcup® has NO LATEX

Wearing INSTEAD® Softcup® during your period, you and your partner can enjoy "clean sex"and he won't even feel it's there! (Note: the INSTEAD® Softcup® is NOT a contraceptive!)

I purchased mine at Target. And while it is a neat concept, they didn’t work for me. I can’t wear tampons, so I have no clue why I thought I could wear something like this. I could feel it and it bugged me. I tried MANY times to wear these and could not get used to them. .I have a retroverted uterus- http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2313.html - so that may have something to do with it. Many people sing the praises of the cup and have great luck with them. You can even read reviews on epinions-

Instead Soft Cup Reviews

Links to My other Articles on Alternative Feminine Products
Sea Sponge Tampons

The Diva Cup and Keeper Menstrual Cups

Monday, December 12, 2005

What Ever Happened toThe Cast of Annie, The Movie?


What Ever Happened to- The cast of the 80’s musical Annie?

We just bought the musical Annie for my three-year-old (she loves it.) It was one of my favorite movies growing up. I’m sure it had something to do with the fact that I had red hair. I even used the song “Maybe” for my SUCCESSFUL audition into The Dallas Girl’s Chorus. I’m sure they heard a million Annie songs that day.
I think I was just as excited to see the movie as my daughter was. I sung a long and really enjoyed it. I couldn’t help but to wonder what happened to the cast. I ended up doing a little Googling (of course.) I’m not covering all of the cast members at this point. I may add more later.

Albert Finney (Daddy Oliver Warbucks)- One of the more famous cast members (and successful.) He has done about 35 movies since Annie. He mostly does dramatic roles.

Carol Burnett (Miss Hannigan)- Carol Burnett, of The Carol Burnett Show fame is, again, another very successful cast member whose roots lie in comedy. . She has had about 20 projects since Annie. If I’m not mistaken, she has had a very successful plastic surgery as well.

Anne Reinking (Grace Farrell)- We really can’t measure her success by the number of movies whe’s done, as her roots lie in dance and choreography. She has had quite a few projects, including the recent “Mad Hot Ballroom.” She won a Tony award in 1997 for her choreography in the revival of the Broadway musical “Chicago.”

Aileen Quinn (Annie)- When Aileen was cast as Annie, she was working in the Broadway Musical as an orphan understudy. She was a swing orphan, meaning she knew all of the parts and could perform any of them as needed. She was onstage 67 times in the production.
Annie was her big movie role. She was nominated for a Golden Globe for :
Actress In A Leading Role - Musical Or Comedy
New Star Of The Year- Annie
Aileen went to college after high school and has been acting on stage since. She has been in many successful shows including “The Unsinkable Molly Brown.” Aileen has done voices in a couple of movies, including “Charmkins,” and “The Frog Prince” as well. Apparently she is filming a movie called “30” , but apparently, her love lies in the stage.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0470190/

Geoffrey Holder (Punjab)- Geoffrey has had the most varied career of all of the actors as far as I can tell. Like Reinhold, he started as a dancer. .He was a successful painter and was awarded a Guggenheim Fellowship in Painting. Later, he directed The Wiz on Broadway and won a Tony award for that stint.

Later, he did the narrator’s voice for “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” 2005. He did a voice for the children’s TV series “Bear in the Big Blue House.” He’s done a few other movies and continues to paint.
DH wondered if he was gay. After four pages of Google I gave up looking.

Amanda/Mandy Peterson (dancer)- I also couldn’t help but notice that the chick from “Can’t Buy me Love” with Patrick Dempsey played an orphan in the movie. She was just a generic orphan, but I was curious about her too. Apparently, “Can’t Buy Me Love” was her one big movie (If you want to call it big.) She has done a few TV movies and appearances since then. She doesn’t seem to have done anything since 1995.
Right now, I can’t find exactly what has happened to her. Here are two rumors I found though-

"Amanda is currently happily married and residing in the beautiful Napa Valley with her husband, David Hartley and their son Jonathon and daughter Katie."

"Unfortunately Amanda's life isn't as glamorous as it used to be. She has an 18 month old daughter who was removed from her custody briefly a year ago due to Amanda breastfeeding her while she was doing drugs. Her ex-boyfriend, the baby's dad, was arrested for domestic violence against her. She also has a mental illness diagnosis. She had a lot going for her, but couldn't keep up with the lifestyle.”

Rosanne Sorrintino (Pepper)- Rosanne played the o-so-saucy Pepper. Rosanne apparently played Annie one of the productions when she was 12. It doesn’t appear that she’s done anything since. I can’t find what happened to her.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Did God Create Evil/Evil the Absence of God?


Does evil exist? A university professor challenged his students with this question. Did God create everything that exists? A student bravely replied, "Yes, he did!" "God created everything? The professor asked. "Yes sir", the student replied. The professor answered, "If God created everything, then God created evil since evil exists, and according to the principal that our works define who we are then God is evil". The student became quiet before such an answer. The professor was quite pleased with himself and boasted to the students that he had proven once more that the Christian faith was a myth.

Another student raised his hand and said, "Can I ask you a question professor?" "Of course", replied the professor. The student stood up and asked, "Professor, does cold exist?" "What kind of question is this? Of course it exists. Have you never been cold?" The students snickered at the young man's question. The young man replied, "In fact sir, cold does not exist. According to the laws of physics, what we consider cold is in reality the absence of heat. Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-460 degrees F) is the total absence of heat; all matter becomes inert and incapable of reaction at that temperature. Cold does not exist. We have created this word to describe how we feel if we have no heat."

The student continued, "Professor, does darkness exist?" The professor responded, "Of course it does." The student replied, "Once again you are wrong sir, darkness does not exist either. Darkness is in reality the absence of light. Light we can study, but not darkness. In fact we can use Newton's prism to break white light into many colors and study the various wavelengths of each color. You cannot measure darkness. A simple ray of light can break into a world of darkness and illuminate it. How can you know how dark a certain space is? You measure the amount of light present. Isn't this correct? Darkness is a term used by man to describe what happens when there is no light present."

Finally the young man asked the professor, "Sir, does evil exist?" Now uncertain, the professor responded, "Of course as I have already said. We see it every day. It is in the daily example of man's inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil." To this the student replied, "Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is not like faith, or love that exist just as does light and heat. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light."

The professor sat down.

Yes, I'm a Redheaded Diva

The Art of Being a Redhead- Thoughts and facts about being a red head.

Being a redhead is a fascinating experience. As a child, you have to get used to all of the points, stares, and comments. People take on over its beautiful color everywhere you go. Old women say things like, “That CAN’T be natural!!” and “You are going to get all of the boys when you get older !!!” Once you go to school, the kids make fun of you. They say things like, “I’d rather be dead than red on the head.” If you have the double whammy of being a red-head AND having freckles, then you really will be tortured. By the time you become a teenager, it can work to your advantage. I found that not only did my looks appeal to a wide range of guys, but there was a special group of men who are fanatical about redheads. They chase after you like a pot of gold. They think that you are a special prize. Of course then you get those innuendo questions like, “Are you a NATURAL redhead? You know there’s one way to tell.” Wink, wink, nudge nudge ;-). “

My husband happens to be a lover of redheads. When I met him, I had long flowing hair. I also had a killer figure. My big ta-tas and gorgeous red hair hooked him on and reeled him in faster than you can imagine but I have a sneeking suspicion that it’s the red-headed attitude that really kept him going. Yes, I have an attitude. I am a typical, temperamental, redhead. We have a three-year-old red headed daughter who will be giving me a run for my money.

I’ve always wondered if the stereotype about red-heads being feisty was true. So I set out Googling to find out. Unfortunately, I didn’t find much on redheads and personality studies, but I did find some interesting facts (see part II.)

Link to Yes, I'm a Redheaded Diva Part II

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

The Truth about Dirt, Germs, and Cleaning


Facts about dirt, germs, and cleaners-

Everyone is so afraid of dirt and germs. The dirtiest place in the house is generally door knobs. Second is your tooth brush. Other than that we are looking at cutting boards and sponges only. The rest of the house is generally fine.

The EPA has proven that homemade cleaners with essential pine oil (a potent anti-microbial) kill germs as well as commercial cleaners. Alcohol may be toxic in the bottle, but once it evaporates, it leaves zero residue, and no traceable particles in the air.

Tests from The Good Housekeeping Institute (and verified by UC Berkley) show that a straight 5 percent solution of vinegar—such as you can buy in the supermarket—kills 99 percent of bacteria, 82 percent of mold, and 80 percent of germs (viruses). It is extremely acidic. It isn’t allowed to be advertised as such b/c companies would have to register it with the epa as a pesticide.

A study published recently by Tufts University Medical School in Boston indicates that antibacterial soaps and antibacterial-coated products may contribute to the increase of antibiotic resistance in the community. It is possible that these substances could encourage bacteria to mutate in ways that make them resistant to antibacterial products, including antibiotics.

And, what about the idea that people who sanitize their homes don’t get sick less that those who don’t?

In a study at Columbia University involving 238 families, those who used only antibacterial cleaners for about a year were just as likely to get fevers, sniffles, sore throats, coughs, rashes and stomach problems as those who used standard cleaners.

Most germ killing products have a minimum contact time for them to sanitize or disinfect. I read my Clorox Disinfecting wipes. The directions say that in order to sanitize, the surface must stay wet for one minute,. for disinfection, FIVE minutes. So, if you are just running one over surfaces to kill germs, then you are SOL (shit out of luck.)

Another glitch: viruses, which remain untouched by antibacterial products, cause colds, stomach bugs, and flu.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, the best method for getting rid of germs and preventing contamination is to wash your hands frequently with regular soap and warm water for at least 15 seconds.

In addition, if you spent only five dollars per week on cleaning solutions, that is about $250.00 PER YEAR. Yikes.

Last night, I timed how long it took me to create a bottle of non-toxic, anti-bacterial, natural cleaner. It took less than one minute. And it cost about three cents.


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A Few References

Here is a reference article put out by our very own CDC: http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/eid/vol7no3_supp/levy.htm

The American Medical Association's Position: http://www.mercola.com/2000/jun/17/anti_bacterial_soap.htm

Volatile Organic Compounds: http://www.epa.gov/iaq/voc.html
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Here are my tips and hints for cleaning in a more enviromentally friendly way:

1. Buy environmentally friendly cleaners whenever possible.
Especially important are dish detergents and clothing detergents.
Target sells a great brand called Method that is affordable and safe. http://www.methodhome.com/cleaners.html
Seventh Generation is also good. I buy this at my local grocery store. http://www.seventhgeneration.com/

Is money an issue? No problem!!! Make your own cleaners to save your health, the environment and $$$$.
http://www.naturodoc.com/library/lifestyle/cleaner.htm http://www.msue.msu.edu/msue/imp/mod02/01500631.html

Time and money an issue? Don't want to spend time making all of those cleaners??

All purpose cleaning: I use dish soap and water on a thin sponge. I clean everything with this!!! Ivory is a great dish soap that is cheap and enviro friendly!!

Abrasive Cleaner: Use baking soda on a damp sponge Toilets: Use about 1 cup of borax or washing soda, swish, and soak overnight. Tubs: Wet tub down. Sprinkle with washing soda, scrub, wash off with hot water.

2. If you still feel the need to disinfect , how about cleaning with environmentally friendly products, then disinfecting by wiping with a DISINFECTING WIPE to kill germs? With wipes, you prevent spraying of products into the air and the harmful inhalation that comes with that. . You are simply using the wipes to kill germs only. You can use one wipe to disinfect a much larger area than if you were cleaning with it as well.

3. How about combination cleaning? Clean ONLY your dirtiest household surfaces with disinfectants, and use enviro friendly cleaners on the rest! 4. Use vinegar to disinfect. Vinegar (as well as lemon juice) are so highly acidic that used straight virtually no germ can survive exposure to them. It disrupts the PH balance and does the buggies in. Distilled vinegar has a less offensive odor:

http://www.versatilevinegar.org/
http://forest.fireshui.com/cleaning/vinegar.html
http://womencentral.net/budget-household.html
Vinegar is especially powerful when mixed with salt. Use 1 cup straight vinegar with 1tsp. salt mixed in. You can add essential oils to help with the smell.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=9209127&dopt=Abstract

Mixing Vinegar and Hydrogen Peroxide works wonders too! Susan Sumner, a food scientist at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University, worked out the recipe for just such a sanitizing combo. All you need is three percent hydrogen peroxide, the same strength available at the drug store for gargling or disinfecting wounds, and plain white or apple cider vinegar, and a pair of brand new clean sprayers, like the kind you use to dampen laundry before ironing. If you're cleaning vegetables or fruit, just spritz them well first with both the vinegar and the hydrogen peroxide, and then rinse them off under running water. It doesn't matter which you use first - you can spray with the vinegar then the hydrogen peroxide, or with the hydrogen peroxide followed by the vinegar. You won't get any lingering taste of vinegar or hydrogen peroxide, and neither is toxic to you if a small amount remains on the produce. As a bonus: The paired sprays work exceptionally well in sanitizing counters and other food preparation surfaces -- including wood cutting boards. In tests run at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University, pairing the two mists killed virtually all Salmonella, Shigella, or E. coli bacteria on heavily contaminated food and surfaces when used in this fashion, making this spray combination more effective at killing these potentially lethal bacteria than chlorine bleach or any commercially available kitchen cleaner. The best results came from using one mist right after the other - it is 10 times more effective than using either spray by itself and more effective than mixing the vinegar and hydrogen peroxide in one sprayer.

5. DON'T THROW AWAY YOUR SPONGES!!! Not only is it expensive, but also bad for the environment. To keep your sponges healthy and clean. You can wring them out well and place them in the top rack of your dishwasher each time you wash. You can also fill a sponge with water and microwave it for three minutes on high. Allow it to cool off before handling. Also, choose the thinnest sponges possible, and wring them out and dry them between uses.

Monday, December 05, 2005

Diva Rant-Pit Bulls



Diva Rant-

Trashy People and Their Pit Bulls

Disclaimer***Let me begin by saying that I know that not all people who have pit bulls are trashy, so don’t write to me saying that YOU have one and aren’t trashy. This is my opinion, based on things I have witnessed directly and happen to have an opinion about. I also know that not all low-income people are trashy. When I use the term trashy, I’m referring to pit bull owners who train their dogs to fight, and breed them poorly.

Saturday, we went into a low-income ( and crime infested) neighborhood to get low cost shots for our dog. Most of the customers live in the area and walk there. DH just happens to teach in this particular area, so we do go there some. Anyway, I was disgusted when we drove up and I saw two people coming from different directions (walking in) with pit bulls on chains. When we went in, there were two people already in the clinic with them. Plus, there were two lost signs from people who had their pit bulls stolen. At that point, I thought about it and realized that I’ve NEVER seen a pit bull in my area. Growing up, I never saw a pit bull in an animal clinic (I’ve been to many b/c we always had pets. ) As a matter of fact, other than my friend Brandy’s pb, and my friend Rosie’s half-pit bull, I’d never seen one in the flesh, yet I go to a low income/high crime area and they are everywhere (and their ears are cropped, which is generally done to keep their ears from getting torn off in fights.) From this, I deduced that there is a probability that most pit bull owners are from low income/high crime areas for some reason. Many websites I found by Googling seemed to back-up this thought. Here is a quote from one, which seems to imply that pit bulls (especially vicious ones) are mostly owned by people in crime infested/poor areas:
“Many low-income areas around the nation have adopted this practice, along with dog fighting, as a means of enjoyment and entertainment. As a result, Pitbulls have fallen victim to inhumane practices and immoral treatment. Today, abuse and neglect of this breed has proved very common, while the breed alone is being blamed.”
http://student.vwc.edu/~flmyers/pitbulls.htm
I decided to send DH outside with our dog and daughter b/c I don’t like the idea of my 3yo or dog being around a pit bull. Apparently, my fears weren’t unfounded contrary to many pit bull owner’s cries. One of the dogs was on a chain, and the owner told the woman sitting next to him that the dog didn’t like strangers or other dogs. Every time the door opened, this dog would jump up and bark like crazy and show its teeth. The owner then proceeded to hit the dog (no wonder the damn dog is vicious.)

Within a minute, the owner struck up a conversation with one of the other pit bull owners. Being the nosey tart that I am, I had to eves drop. They were trying to talk in code about fighting their dogs, but they were too stupid to do it well. One of the guys said, “I’ve been losing a lot of dogs lately, if you know what I mean. I lost one last night. But I don’t fight this one, I just breed her.” I love how he’s TRYING to be subtle, but then he comes on out and says exactly what he’s talking about. He was a smart one. I continued to listen to them discuss this barbaric issue for several minutes. It really disgusted me. I said something to the clerk about it, and apparently, all the pet clinic can do is treat the hurt dogs and notify the authorities of possible fighting. But, since it’s a VERY high crime area, the police have other things to focus on.

I have read the arguments about the problem with pit bulls being with the owners, not the breed. You can go to this site to check out pro-pitbull information. It is a great site:

http://www.badrap.org/rescue/index.cfm

But, even with all that I have read, I still can’t help but to realize that I never hear about labs or standard poodles attacking and killing people, or being bred to fight. What this logically tells me is that pit bulls have an inherent aggression that can be easily bought out by sinister people who want to train them to fight. I have seen the trial stats that have been quoted by pit bull lovers comparing their temperament to beagles and labs. Yet, I still never hear about beagles or labs viciously biting someone to the death or about dog fighting with these breeds. If pit bulls aren’t inherently vicious (or some that are bred that way) why does it seem to be the dog of choice for dog fighting?? Why do we always hear about them being attack dogs? If these dogs are so great, why do they have such a bad rep? It’s b/c there is some truth to them being inherently vicious. Even the Bad Rap crew admits that these dog have inherent tendencies and that owners need to be really careful and alert. Since the sight doesn’t allow copy and paste, here’s the link to the page:

http://www.badrap.org/rescue/myths.cfm- scroll down to the myth “Don’t Pit Bulls Have to be Trained to Fight?”

My friend has a dog that is half pit bull. He is very small. They are very kind people, yet the dog still has a very vicious streak. It has attacked other animals and people, so I have a feeling that it doesn’t necessarily take bad training from sinister people to bring out the bad side of this breed. My thought (and I know it isn’t fact, just an idea) is that in order to have a pit bull without any vicious streak what so ever, one must carefully choose where they get the dog, and take extreme care in raising these animals. My friend Brandy has a wonderful pit bull that is sweet and very loyal. She has been very vigilant in raising the dog and got it from a dealer known for it’s calm pits. I do believe that there are good pits. I have seen them myself. And having had a very vicious Pomeranian that had to be given a new home b/c he attacked my child, I know that these aren’t the only aggressive- breeds, I am not claiming that. What I’m claiming is that pit bulls seem to be a breed that is attractive to low income thugs who want to fight them. I have no problem with pit bull bans if they keep the animals out of the hands of people like this. If it keeps one animal from needlessly dying, getting hurt, or from being abused, I’m all for it. I don’t like the idea of the animals being put down b/c of the breeding bans, and I have no solution to that part of the problem. It just seems like with all of the problems with these dogs and the care that must be exercised in breeding and owning them that doing without the breed wouldn’t be that much of a loss.

If you are really bored, try this site. It's loaded with ads, but it's something to do if you like pit bulls-
http://www.ratemypitbull.com/?z=1

Friday, December 02, 2005

Broccoli Cheese Soup Recipe

Broccoli Cheese Soup

This is an easy and delicious sort-of-homemade soup that has been a hit. On one of the message boards I post on, someone has said that they use the leftovers over baked potatoes. Another girl said she ladles it over chicken breasts and bakes at 350 degrees until the chicken is cooked through.

**One warning-this soup WILL make you fart.**

2 cans condensed cream of chicken soup

2 cans condensed cream of mushroom soup

4 cans milk (whole, or 2% works best)

2 frozen boxes of CHOPPED broccoli, or one medium bag

1lb shredded cheddar cheese or your favorite mix of shredded cheeses

Salt and pepper to taste.

Cook broccoli in microwave or on stovetop according to pkg. directions. In large soup pot, combine condensed soups, milk, salt and pepper and whisk together over low heat. Once this mixture warms up, add cheese and broccoli. Cook on low until cheese is melted ad soup is piping hot. It tastes good with saltines.

I also make a baked potato soup with a similar recipe

Substitute 4 cans cream of potato soup for condensed cream of chicken and mushroom soups.

Substitute 2 lbs. boiled, cubed and UNPEELED new potatoes (boil for 15 minutes)for the broccoli.

At the end, stir in 1/2 lb crisp bacon and 1/2 finely chopped onion that you have sautéed in the bacon drippings.

Top with sour cream


This general recipe is very versatile. You could just change the cream soup and vegetable, add whatever flavorings you want and you could have cream of anything with cheese. I've thought of doing a cheesy cream of mushroom made with various sautéed mushrooms, cream of mushroom soup, the milk, white wine, and some yummy gourmet cheese.

Diva Rant-Target Bans The word Christmas

Diva Rant-Target Turns Scrooge

http://www.afa.net/targetboycott.asp

http://www.snopes.com/politics/business/targetxmas.asp


Okay, I'll admit it, I've fallen under the Super Target spell more than I care to admit. What's the Super Target Spell you ask? It’s the phenomenon that occurs when you go into Target to get JUST toothpaste and tampons and $150.00 later, you come out with bags full of Isaac Mizrahi dog accessories, the newest Swiffer floor mop, and some really groovy Christmas ornaments.

But apparently, all of the business generated by the God fearing Christians isn't enough to keep them from succumbing to the tyranny of the minority. Yes people, Target has whimped out and lost a battle in the war with the Politically Correct Disciples of The US. They are no longer using the word Christmas in their ad/promotions. They would rather cater to the minority of customers as opposed to the majority. Why can’t they say Christmas, Kwanzaa, and Hanukkah (even though neither can be compared to Christmas)? That’s dumb. Just b/c a religion or certain people don’t celebrate a holiday, doesn’t mean a store can’t use the term. Most people celebrate Christmas. The people who don’t, don’t necessarily have a holiday that is equivalent to Christmas. Using the term Christmas shouldn’t offend anyone. Many atheist/agnostics celebrate Christmas as a celebration of winter. If someone doesn’t celebrate it, can’t they just ignore the term? It seems like Target is alienating more people than it is placating.

The whole PC movement is really pissing me off. It was bad enough when I stopped being able to use the word retard on any female dominated message board. Now, my favorite store is basically detaching itself from my very favorite holiday? Ugh. I would boycott, but I’m not quite that radical, and then I would be denying myself the shopping experience that is Target.

Want to read more Diva opinions on this topic? Check out what originally inspired my post:

http://www.idreamofbaby.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=216413

Writer's Notebook Time-Cups


Every now and then, I will slide something in from my Writer's Notebook. Please read the Creative Commons license at the bottom of this blog.

Cups

A cup stands for so many things in the life of a woman. At first, the cup is an empty vessel that catches all of the experiences that make a girl who she is. All of it goes into the cup--the first step, the first word, the first time she kissed Scotty Fitzgerald on the cheek in third grade and he wrote her that note:
"Would you be my girlfriend? Circle yes or no."

By the time she begins her journey into womanhood, a woman's cup has been emptied and refilled many times. For me, it is a lot like going into the kitchen to get a drink. I pour a glass of lemonade and take a sip. All I can taste is the sickening sweetness. So I pour it out. Maybe a cup of tea will do the trick. Nope, too bitter. Water? Too plain. It finally strikes me. What I need in my cup is warm, rich, soulful hot chocolate with a slightly sassy dash of mint syrup.
Hot chocolate can have its problems, I'll grant you that. It can get way too hot. I call it pissed- off hot chocolate. If you let it sit there for a nice long while, it gets cold. It grows this yucky dark film on top. You can tell just by looking at it that it doesn't have an ounce of life in it. Nothing.
By the time that any given woman decides which drink to put in her cup, the cup is used for something all together different. It becomes her heart. It holds love and passion. Sometimes the cup is so full that it starts pouring over the sides and onto the floor. Then again, sometimes the contents of the cup dry-up completely. All that is left in the cup is gunk. No one would dare to drink from it until it gets a good run through the dishwasher. It may have to sit in the dishwasher for a while, sort of basking amongst the crud. But, eventually the cup will arise from the top rack of the dishwasher fresh, clean, and ready to be filled once again.

Love comes in many liquid forms. Eventually most women end up settling on one. Maybe he is nothing more than a simple thirst quencher like water. Then again, maybe he is one of those drinks that should only be consumed in small amounts, like tequila. Or, maybe he is yummy, vibrant, and fun like cola. Yes, sometimes cola can get too flat or have a little too much fizz. But, for the most part, whether it is diet or regular, for me cola the is perfect drink.

After Mr. Cola and I settle in together, the cup gets to hold yet another liquid. The thought of combining hot chocolate and cola can be a little scary at first. But, once you get used to the idea, you realize that all you need to do is add a little heavy cream to the hot chocolate, churn it through an ice cream freezer, add a few scoops to the cola and wa-la! You have an interesting, chocolate-ice cream-Coke- float, a new and original creation. It tastes a little funny at first. The caffeine keeps you up pretty much all night. It can also be a little awkward putting a diaper on a float. But, eventually no matter what the truth really is, you and Mr. Cola end up thinking that the float is the most intelligent, gifted, and beautiful drink in the entire universe.

Now, once Mr. Coke and I make a few floats we will have many wonderful years as a happy family. We get so used to those floats being around. Eventually though, they will want cups of their own. So, no more fun, bubbly, weird floats except when they need Mrs. Hot Chocolate to do their laundry.

Now that Mrs. Hot Chocolate's cup is empty, she cries a lot. Especially when Mr. Coke talks about changing one of the floats rooms into a workout room. Mrs. Hot Chocolate thinks he is completely insensitive. But, alas, after a while the float's room becomes Mr. Mid-Life Crisis's pimped out exercise lair. And, life goes on. Mrs. Hot Chocolate begins filling her cup with new things--reading, gardening, and going to Chippendales with the other ladies. She goes on with her life, her cup becoming more chipped and well worn but still beautiful and distinctive. The contents of her cup will be slowly consumed with relish. And, one day the hot chocolate will be no more. But, her beautiful, well worn, empty cup will live on in a prominent spot in her granddaughter's china cabinet.

Thursday, December 01, 2005

Weird Sex Confession Time- Girl Crushes


Okay, weird confession time. I get girl crushes. I'm am not a lesibian, and I don't consider myself bi, yet I when I see certain women, I think mmmmmm, if I were a guy, I would so do her. I think it turns my husband on. Here are my top 10 girl crushes:


1. Gina Gershon
2. Angelina Jolie
3. Michelle Rodriguez
4. Evangeline Lilly
5. Britney Spears
6. Drew Barrymore
7. Salma Hayak
8. Uma Thurmon
9. Marcia Cross
10.Elisha Cuthbert (Kim Bauer from 24)


Speaking of girl crushes, my husband said JUST said he'd suck someone's peter for a Klondike bar.

What's the Diva Google-ing?

  • Zero Seven
  • How to Win the Grocery Game
  • Jewish Nationality
  • Three Doors Down
  • Yasmine Birth Control
  • Marilyn Manson
  • Mirena IUD

Easy Chicken Noodle Soup

What's for Dinner?-Sort of Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup

Tonight, I made sort-of-homeade chicken noodle soup. It isn't my favorite, but DH LOVES it. I occasionally make him what he really wants, if only to get some nookie. Here is the recipe. It isn't exact. You can really add more or less of any of it and it will turn out great-

Chicken Noodle Soup

-5 cans Swanson Chicken Broth
-3 meduim carrots, peeled and sliced
-3-4 celery stalks diced
-1 small chopped onion
-1 lb. boneless chicken meat
-1 small pkg. medium or broad egg noodles
-1 tsp salt
-pepper to taste
-1/2 tsp garlic powder or 1 clove chopped garlic
-1/2 tsp onion powder

Combine all ingredients in a large pan on medium heat. Bring to a boil. Simmer 15-20 minutes until chicken is no longger pink. Remove chicken. Add noodles and cook in soup according to time on noodle pkg. Shred chicken using two forks and add back to pot. When the noodles are done, it's ready!!!

Palm Life Drive Review



One word --LifeDrive. Seems like it should be two words, but on the Palm box it is undoubtably crammed together as one word. Today's random thoughts are focused on the awe inspiring Palm Life Drive. Yes, I am doing a review for my very first Diva post. I am in love with the LifeDrive.

I am pretty savvy when it comes to computers. But, alas, it took me years to figure out why my Handspring Visor Platinum kept dropping my info every time the battery ran down. When I finally discovered that it lacked Flash Memory, I decided that I couldn't live without a new one. So, I did the obligitory research. Using www.pcworld.com , www.consumerreports.com, and www.amazon.com . I narrowed it down to the Dell Axim 53v and Palm LifeDrive. I actually went to the mall to hold the Dell (they have a Dell stand.) I went to Comp USA to check out the LD (hey, it was Black Friday, Best Buywas too crowded.)

The LD won out by a LANDSLIDE. It is the first handheld/PDA to have a hard drive on it. The hard drive is 3.85GB, so obviously it felt more substantial. It isn't shirt pocket sized, but it easily fits into my pants pocket (I love to put it in my pants on vibrate mode ;) [J/K there is no vibrate mode]) and it fits well into my purse. It has a nice sized screen. It also has a great pop-up stylus. Its a silver grey color, which is fine. It has a USB and recharging cord with it. It also has a headphone jack on the bottom of the unit. It runs Palm Garnet 5.4 I think (techno geeks, correct me if I'm wrong, and I'll change it.)

It has great features like an MP3 player (I am currently trying to find a LEGAL MP3 of Marilyn Manson's "Sweet Dreams" [WHY do I have a crush on him? That seems freaky.]) You can put WMA's on it with an upgrade to the PTunes program. You can also store TONS of great pics on it. I really like this feature b/c I can look at my nudie pictures of hot guys when DH isn't looking (if only it really had a vibrate mode, it could do it all.) You can download ebooks to it through eReader (which is included.) It also has a hard drive mode that you can use to store/back-up files on your concuter (no that's not a typo, that's what my 3yo, Lauren, calls it.) You can also back-up your LD (LifeDrive--aren't I just a Rachel Ray??) to the HD on your computer, then transfer the files to the hard drive of the LD in lu (or is it loo?) of Hot Synching. You can surf the net with it, IF you have access to wireless internet. I haven't been able to download e-mails from my computer (non-wirelessly) yet using the included and buggy Versamail, but I think I will eventually figure it out.

Speaking of buggy, the other problem I had with this thing was getting it to download my Outlook Calendar. I went to my favorite webboard--http://www.organizedhome.com/forums.html (where I post as smiling1809) and one of the Palm savvy chicas there directed me to the best Palm forum around (they also have other PDA forums) http://discussion.brighthand.com/palmhandhelds/ There aren't many girls there (that's probably what makes it so functional) but the guys there are pretty eager to help out. I was able to fix the problem. It turns out that you can't leave recurring events without an end date. Anyway, they helped me fix that problem. It also has a lag from the time you activate a program until it opens. That can be fixed with a program called Shark Chache-http://www.ludustech.com/sharkcache . It sells for $10.00. Other than those issues, I haven't had problems, but I've also only had it for a week. There are plenty of people who have had problems with it, but so far, my unit has been great.

Anyway, I know that starting with a tech review makes me seem more like a nerd than a diva, but oh well.